Red slushy drink at Sidetrack in Chicago.

I haven’t had alcohol in a year.

On December 31, 2019 I made a New Year’s resolution to cut back on drinking alcohol.

I wanted to say, “give up alcohol altogether,” but, let’s face it, I knew that wasn’t going to actually happen… barring some sort of crazy universal intervention…

I wasn’t a big drinker to begin with but it still seemed like an impossibly hard goal. I mean, I did love a good cocktail at a swanky bar, a nice glass of wine at dinner with friends, a cider at a dive, or a bright red slushy while listening to Broadway tunes at Sidetrack.

But drinking also seemed like the one thing I could give up that would have a positive impact on all my other big goals.

I wanted to focus on some blogging work and I’m at that age where even a couple glasses of wine on a Friday night meant spending the rest of the weekend as a useless slug.

I wanted to lose weight and alcohol was really just empty calories that I usually didn’t even enjoy all that much.

I wanted to save money and those $12 cocktails certainly weren’t helping my credit card bill.

It also seemed like something that, for the most part, I wouldn’t miss all that much. Sure, I love those cocktails and ciders and slushies and glasses of wine, but most of the alcohol I actually drank — the cheap beers, the on-special raspberry Stoli, the house wines — I didn’t even like the taste of.

So I made this goal that in 2020 I was going to cut back on drinking. And I started out the year doing pretty OK.

By the end of February I had had maybe three drinks on my birthday (a celebration that usually would have left me pretty sloshed), half a glass of sangria at a friend’s party, and, yes, one of those bright red slushies while listening to Broadway tunes at Sidetrack. But I also turned down free drinks at work parties, sat with water at a bar, drank a soda while everyone else had beer, and did not drink five of those bright red slushies while listening to Broadway tunes at Sidetrack.

And then, in March, the pandemic hit and, all of a sudden, I was no longer going to bars, going to restaurants, or even going to work. I was just home. Alone. With cats.

And, all of a sudden, not drinking became really, really easy.

I was never someone who drank at home. I only drank while out and only drank while social and so when out and social left my life, so did drinking.

And so, now that I have spent the last year at home, not going out, not going to work, not being social, I have also not had alcohol in a year.

It’s probably the only New Year’s resolution I’ve ever been able to keep.

Now, don’t get me wrong, not drinking over the last year has done zero to effect all those goals I had.

Sure, I’m not hungover all weekend anymore, but I am paralyzed in bed with depression and, therefore, am still a useless slug most of the time.

Sure, I save the empty calories, but those are just taken over with sugar and fatty foods and not moving from my bed if I don’t have to.

Sure, I’m saving money by not drinking but I am also spending money by ordering random crap on the internet that I don’t need in order to fill some sort of void in my life.

But at least I’m no longer spending money to ingest Stoli and Sprite.

So it’s been a year without alcohol plus however many months left ahead at home to come.

But I am looking forward to once again having a good cocktail at a swanky bar, a nice glass of wine at dinner with friends, a cider at a dive, and a bright red slushy drink someday ahead.

Learn on Skillshare

Affiliate Link

Hi, I'm Val. I spent most of my 20s in a standstill, unable to pick which path in life I wanted to take. I wanted the nomadic life of a traveler but also wanted the husband, the condo, and the kitten. Unable to decide which life I wanted more, I did nothing. When I turned 30 I’d had enough of putting my life on hold and decided to start “choosing my figs.” So, I quit my job, bought a one-way ticket to Europe, and traveled for three years. Now I'm back in Chicago, decorating my apartment in all the teal, petting my cats, and planning my next adventure.

  • Ali
    March 6, 2021at1:39 pm

    Congrats! And I’m often paralyzed with depression too, you’re not alone there. And eating the junk food, yep. I drank almost every night when all this started last spring, but now with the puppy waking us up earlier than we’d like, I feel even worse if I drink too much, so I’ve cut back a lot. But I still drink too often and I’m sure it would be great for much needed weight loss if I could cut it completely. Sigh.

  • markwiliam
    May 1, 2023at2:54 am


    Hey there! I just finished reading your blog post about your recent flight with Skywynk from New York (JFK) to Kingston (KIN), and I must say, it was a delight to read! As someone who travels frequently, I’m always on the lookout for new airlines to try out, and your experience with Skywynk has certainly piqued my interest.

    I really appreciated the level of detail you included in your post, from the easy booking process to the comfortable seats and friendly service onboard. It’s always reassuring to hear about positive experiences with airlines, especially when it comes to things like legroom and in-flight amenities. And the fact that Skywynk offers complimentary snacks and beverages is definitely a bonus in my book!

    Overall, your review has definitely convinced me to consider Skywynk for my next trip to Jamaica. It sounds like they offer a great balance of affordability and quality, and I appreciate that you highlighted both the pros and cons of your experience. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us – happy travels!

Post a Comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.